Monday, February 15, 2010

It's Monday again...

Time moves so quickly!  It seems to be busy and full of seemingly mundane tasks.  Cleaning house, schooling children, working the schedule of who needs to be where and when, shuttle service to get the whos to where they need to be and when, laundry, making dinner...all to be repeated again the next day.  All of these tasks add up to the life the Lord has called me to as wife and mother in this family!  I need to get better at putting, "post on blog" on the list of to do's.

Recently I have been thinking about and praying for my sweet sister Lauren who has four children under the age of six!  Whew!  Although I never had four, I do remember back to the days when my three were under the age of four or five or six.  Such tiring and long days.  This past weekend I was looking through old photo albums to get some pictures of my sweet, oldest daughter who will be turning 14 on Sunday.  Such precious memories.  Lots of hugs, kisses, cuddles on the couch, reading together, arts and crafts, enjoying nature...together...together...together.   I want to tell my sister that these are really such sweet days, but she knows that.  The reality is that they are tiring, draining, and, at times, discouraging days, too.  But as that season passes and the Lord's faithfulness and goodness are what is seen "on the other side", it is a great reminder to me, too, that during these tiring, draining, and too often times, discouraging days that I find myself in, the Lord is faithful and good.  I know that I will look back on these years when my not-so-little ones are practicing spreading their wings and becoming more and more who God created them to be each day, and I will remember precious memories of talking, laughing, reading together, working together, enjoying life together!

I know that all too soon our together times will be fewer and fewer as they go to college and follow the path that the Lord has laid out for them.  Those times will, too, be filled with precious memories - just different from the season we are in right now..and certainly different from the toddler/young child season we have left behind.  I so wish that on a daily basis, I would remember how sweet these present moments are and enjoy them to the fullest.

The list of what I'm thankful for continues:

7. God's faithfulness in spite of my faithlessness!
8.  Children who are maturing in the things of the Lord and desire a right relationship with Him and with me!
9.  Breaks from school - our co-op is taking a winter break this week.  It is nice to breathe!
10.  Family visits...this should count as multiple items because I love it when family visits.  My sister Aimee and her awesome crew are coming this week for a few fun days.
11.  Unexpected quiet moments...Jerry and Abigail are enjoying watching Randy's basketball game.  I stayed home to shuttle to Alex from Show Choir.  She is diligently working on a paper, and I'm blogging...quiet moments!
12.  Diligent children - see #11.
13.  Warm socks...certainly not a very spiritual thing to be thankful for...but,seriously, I have the coldest feet E.V.E.R.  Thick, warm, fuzzy socks really make me smile :).
14.  Old photographs!  How often has the Lord used old photographs to remind me of His love, faithfulness, and goodness to me.  Like the commercial says:  Priceless!



One tired, but really happy mommy!!

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Quotable Quotes...

A parenting nugget ~ "Encouragement after failure is as important as praise after success."

Mark Gregston

Monday, February 1, 2010

I will enter His gates with thanksgiving in my heart...

One of my favorite blogs to read is Ebenezer Stories. Beth is someone that I would love to have tea with and learn from on a daily basis. She participates in 1000 gifts which is beautifully explained here. Oh, I have so many things to be thankful for on a moment-by-moment basis!

1.  For my sweet husband...I mentioned that I would like to change the look of my website, and viola!  I have to be careful of what I mention because he will jump all over it.  Sweet, sweet man!
2.  My lovely daughter, Alex, who spent all Sunday afternoon preparing for her new venture of collecting frozen casseroles for us to take to the Harvest Center in Charlotte.  She made four spaghetti casseroles (and did an amazing job cleaning the kitchen afterwards) and a cute-as-can-be flyer to pass around at dance.
3.  SNOW!  The Lord blessed us with a beautiful covering this weekend.  It was great to clear the docket and just enjoy peace, quiet, and family for the weekend.
4.  Snuggling close with Abigail and reading "Night Journey" by Avi this weekend.
5.  Family devotion times - great reminder today from Exodus 15...God moves mightily in our lives and days later, we can begin to complain.  Lord, help me to thank you in all circumstances.
6.  Great teaching and teachers who share their heart.  I've been so enjoying reading and listening to resources from Mark Gregston.  He has a free ebook, emails etc. to encourage parents of teens.  Good stuff!